Bishop's Journey

1939 - 2013

Created by Delores 10 years ago
His Story… Bishop’s story began on a wintry day in January of 1939. His arrival was noteworthy in the newspaper because of this preemie’s size. Bishop enjoyed spending time with his siblings Wilhelmina, Leonard and Darnell, playing against the back drop of Detroit's “Black Bottom.” It was during this time he learned the importance of family and value of hard work, which he would demonstrate for generations to come. Shortly after graduating from high school he married Mottie and from this union, they had four beautiful children. The “Bish” as he was affectionately known by his coworkers, was a “Man’s Man." He was passionate about the treatment of employees and commended for his work. Employed for General Motors for over 33 years, he took pleasure in working as QWL Coordinator and UAW Union Representative. When he wasn’t running in campaigns, he often volunteered his time at the union hall and various functions. Retirement never stopped his participation, volunteering not only his services but also the talents and services of his family. Bishop could never hide his love and attraction for Celia whom he courted from his front porch, when he lived next door to her aunt. He married the love of his life in June of 1984 and began a journey that included spending time with their children, planning family vacations and creating those infamous Christmas Holiday gatherings where he and Celia relished in splurging on their grandchildren. As a husband, he was always supportive, affectionate and a good time. He was good as long as she was good. Toward the end of his journey, he told her to get prepared, because he was tired. He went on to explain that he was ready to go a long time ago, but continued on this journey because he didn't like to see he cry. "So stop crying honey, before I change my mind." He would tell you in a heartbeat that she was indeed his best-friend and he was at his best whenever she was near. As a father, "Papa" was very protective, proud, fair, stern - but loving. He believed children should be treated as children, not this new way of parenting. He was supportive, regardless of the situation. He was direct in his communications and actions and expected the same. "Mean what you say and DO what you say you are going to do!" His children and grandchildren were truly his heart's joy. Whenever time and weather was permitting, Bish could be found on Belleville Lake or Elizabeth Lake fishing for Blue Gill or various bass fish. He loved fishing for Salmon with his son Lonnie and buddies on Lake Michigan or in Northern Michigan. He would often come back from these fishing trips telling tales of how the “Big One” eluded him. During the fall and winter months, this star bowler often bowled with various leagues over the years. He took the game seriously, winning too many games and trophies to count. Deany was a proud family man and he took pride in his home, spending hours manicuring and watering his lawn. He enjoyed spending time around the house entertaining family and friends, and could often be found in the basement watching The Godfather, playing an endless game of pool with his best buddy Ron (whom preceded him), watching golf with his canine buddy Bentley, or enjoying a glass of homemade wine while listening to Miles Davis. Periodically, he enjoyed gambling at MGM Casino for some "me" time. Bishop was known for his Cool Swagger, he walked cool, talked cool, he danced cool and as everyone knows he was the Coolest Santa Claus ever. To those who knew Bishop best, it was no surprise that he loved playing Santa Claus in the Detroit New Center Building. He had a big heart and loved talking with his community’s children. Always routing for the underdog, he was an industrious, practical, and no-nonsense kind of a man. He had high standards and a strong belief system. He was always versed on current events and politics. He enjoyed Sunday breakfasts with his coffee and a healthy discussion of current events. Please don't come to the table unprepared or unwilling to learn a new perspective----the union was always a hot topic. This courageous man, believed it best to learn all the facts before forming an opinion, addressing an issue or problem. Bish made his transition in June, the way he wanted and his Maker designed. He will be greatly missed, but NEVER forgotten by all that knew him. He leaves precious memories with his devoted wife, six children, twelve grandchildren, a great-granddaughter and a host of relatives and dear friends.